Consent culture: a kink guide for adults
18+. This section is informational. It’s about consent culture, boundaries, and safety in adult interactions. There are no “how to find/order” instructions here, and no graphic descriptions.
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Start here
If you’re new to the topic, start with these two pieces.
- Kinky lifestyle in Israel — context and privacy: /en/bdsm-v-izraile-kinky-soprovozhdenie/
- What is BDSM accompaniment — definitions and ethics: /en/guides/bdsm-soprovozhdenie-etiket-granicy-bezopasnost/
Core principles and terms
Red flags
- pressure and rushing (“let’s skip the discussion”);
- refusing to talk about boundaries and stop signals;
- mocking your concerns or questions;
- ignoring confidentiality;
- treating aftercare as “not a thing” (ending abruptly).
If any of this is present, it’s safer to stop and leave the situation.
Country and context resources
- Israel: kinky lifestyle and privacy — /en/bdsm-v-izraile-kinky-soprovozhdenie/
FAQ
Is this “about sex”?
Sometimes yes, sometimes no. In a kink context, the structure matters more: consent, boundaries, communication, and safety.
What if I’m a beginner and afraid of feeling overwhelmed?
Start with the terms (SSC/RACK), then aftercare, then the context article.
Disclaimer: 18+, informational. Any practices are only acceptable between adults with voluntary consent and in compliance with the laws of the country you’re in.
