What kind of sex do girls from different parts of the world like?

This is a deep and multifaceted topic. To understand the sexual preferences of women from different parts of the world, you need to look not only at the bedroom, but also at how culture, religion, climate, and upbringing shape their attitudes toward their own bodies. Sex is a language, and each country has its own “dialect.”

Here is a detailed guide to the sexual mentality of women in different regions of the world.

1. Western and Northern Europe: “My body is my business”

(Germany, Netherlands, Sweden, Norway)

Here, the sexual revolution has won out completely. Women have grown up in a culture of excellent sex education and gender equality.

• Attitude towards the body: In these countries (especially in Germany and Scandinavia), nudity is not overly sexualized. The culture of saunas and nudist beaches (FKK in Germany) makes women very confident. They are not shy about their curves or imperfections.
• Style in bed: Partnership and pragmatism.
  • They don’t like playing “hard to get.” If a girl wants sex, she will say so directly.
  • Sex is seen as a joint project. She won’t lie there like a log, waiting for you to please her. She will actively participate, suggest positions, and take the initiative.
  • What they value: Technical skill, stamina, and honesty. If you ask, “Do you like it when I do this?”, a German or Swedish woman will answer honestly, not out of politeness.
• Taboo: Patriarchal attitudes. Attempts to dominate without asking or treating a woman as the “weaker sex” in bed will be met with rejection here.

2. Southern Europe: Theater of the Senses

(France, Italy, Spain)

Hedonism reigns supreme here. Food, wine, and sex are the three pillars on which life is based.

• Attitude towards the body: Women here take care of themselves not for sport, but for aesthetics. Beautiful lingerie in France is not festive clothing, but an everyday staple.
• Style in bed: The art of seduction.
  • For a French or Italian woman, sex begins long before the bedroom: with the way you looked at her in a café, how you served her a glass of wine. Intellectual flirting is important to them.
  • In the process itself, unhurriedness is important. They are gourmets. Quick sex (“rabbit style”) is perceived as disrespectful.
  • What they value: Compliments, tactility, long kisses, and oral caresses. A man should admire her as a work of art.
• Key difference: If in northern Europe sex is “sport/health,” then in the south it is “drama/cinema.”

3. Eastern Europe: Femininity and Strength

(Russia, Ukraine, Poland, Baltic countries)

A complex mix of traditional values and modern liberation. Women from this region are often considered some of the most well-groomed in the world.

• Attitude towards the body: High standards of beauty. Women spend a lot of energy on hair removal, makeup, and fitness to feel confident.
• Style in bed: Emotional connection.
  • There is still a strong demand for “strong men” here. Women like to feel led (in a good way), to feel male initiative and pressure.
  • Sex is often closely linked to feelings. Even in a casual relationship, a woman wants to feel a certain “spark” or emotional closeness.
  • What they value: Passion mixed with care. After passionate sex, it is important for her to be hugged. She needs confirmation that she is the only one for you at that moment.

4. North America: Performance and Experimentation

(USA, Canada)

American sex culture is heavily focused on results and visuals (influenced by Hollywood and the porn industry).

• Attitude towards the body: The cult of fitness and ideal shapes. At the same time, thanks to the body positivity movement, American women are very different: from those with complexes to those who are completely carefree.
• Style in bed: Enthusiasm and open-mindedness.
  • American women are the most “vocal” lovers. Vocalization (moans, words of encouragement, dirty talk) is an essential part of the process. Silent sex can be perceived as boring.
  • They are open to toys, role-playing, and scenarios. Sex is seen as a skill that can be improved.
  • What they value: Oral sex (cunnilingus is considered a standard of politeness here), variety, and a man’s ability to accept her fantasies without judgment.

5. Latin America: Rhythm and Fire

(Brazil, Colombia, Argentina, Mexico)

Stereotypes don’t lie: physicality is off the charts here. But it’s important to understand the difference between vulgarity and natural sexuality.

• Attitude towards the body: The body is a temple of joy. Curvy hips and breasts are a source of pride here, not complexes. People are used to close contact: dancing (salsa, bachata, tango) erases the boundaries of personal space.
• Style in bed: Passion and Drive.
  • Sex here is a continuation of dance. Rhythm, flexibility, and endurance of the partner are critically important.
  • Despite their outward openness, many Latin American women are raised Catholic. It is important to them that a man shows respect, but in moments of intimacy, he should be dominant and incredibly passionate (“macho” in the true sense of the word).
  • What they value: Body odor (not perfume, but the smell of a clean body), bites, slaps, and strong hugs. Sex should be like a little storm.

6. Asia: The Contrast Between Modesty and Debauchery

(Japan, South Korea, China)

The most mysterious region, where the external social mask is radically different from what happens behind closed doors.

• Attitude towards the body: There is a sense of modesty in the culture. Complete nudity can be embarrassing, so dim lighting or partial clothing is often used.
• Style in bed: Service and intimacy.
  • In Japan and Korea, the aesthetics of “cuteness” and even a certain childishness (sounds, behavior) are popular. It is a game that allows a man to feel big and strong.
  • However, it is in Asia that there is the highest demand for unusual fetishes. Restraint in the office is compensated for by experiments in hotels (Love Hotels).
  • What they value: A long, very gentle introduction. Tactility (“skinship”) — taking a bath together, massage. It is important for them to feel safe in order to relax. Roughness without preparation is unacceptable here.

7. The Middle East and India: The Forbidden Fruit

(Turkey, Iran, Arab countries, India)

• Attitude: In countries with strict traditions, sex is either sacred or taboo. But, as we know, forbidden fruit is sweet.
• Style in bed: Behind closed bedroom doors, where no one can see them, Eastern women often display incredible temperament. Taking off clothes is an act of absolute trust.
• What they value: Atmosphere and sensuality. Since visual contact is often limited in society, other senses are heightened: smell (expensive oils, perfumes), hearing (whispers), touch (expensive fabrics, silk). It’s a sexual immersion.

The main secret of global sex

If we summarize the experience of thousands of male travelers and sexologists, a “gold standard” emerges that works from Tokyo to New York:

1. An individual approach trumps nationality. If you treat a girl like a stereotype (“Oh, you’re Brazilian, so it’s going to be carnival time!”), you will lose. If you pay attention to her reactions, you will win.
2. Safety = Orgasm. Women of any nationality cannot orgasm if they do not feel safe (physically and emotionally) with a man.
3. Hygiene and grooming. This is a universal ticket to her panties anywhere in the world.

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