The Complete Guide to Booking Etiquette: How to Become a Welcome Guest

The art of the first step. Algorithm of actions

You found a profile, you liked the photos. Now your task is to turn your interest into a real meeting. Many men fail at this point, not understanding that an escort service is not a dating site, but a business service with strict security protocols.

This text will explain the mechanics of the perfect request. Read it to understand the logic, and at the end, check yourself against the checklist to see if you’ve considered everything.

1. Analysis Phase: Why “blind” requests are ignored

Before you open the messenger, you need to clearly understand who you are writing to. Professionals hate wasting time on “empty” responses.

• Geography as a filter: Your desire to meet means nothing if the logistics are impossible. Make sure your expectations for the location (hotel, apartment, travel) match her capabilities.
• Taboo is the law: The restrictions in the profile are written in blood and experience. If you see a ban on certain practices, do not try to get around it with tricks or money. This is not “price gouging,” it is a matter of her physical safety. Ignoring this point makes you look like an amateur.

2. The architecture of dialogue: From greeting to specifics

Your first message is your calling card. It should cover all of the girl’s potential questions before they even arise.

The psychology of perception: When a girl receives a message saying, “Hi, how are you, let’s meet up,” she sees uncertainty. Uncertainty causes anxiety. When she sees a clear brief (Who, When, Where, For how long), she sees a confident man with whom she feels safe.

The formula for the perfect request: Instead of long preliminaries, use the “Introduction + Offer” structure.

1. Status: Addressing her formally immediately creates a respectful distance.
2. Transparency: If you are inviting her to your apartment, immediately provide the address or name of the residential complex. Secrecy about the address (“I’ll tell you later”) is a red flag for any girl.
3. Initiative: Don’t ask “When are you free?” Offer your own options: “Are you interested in Tuesday evening or Wednesday afternoon?” This makes it easier for her to choose.

Example to copy: “Hello, [Name]! My name is [Your Name]. I would like to invite you tomorrow at 7:00 p.m. for 2 hours. The apartment is in the center (residential complex ‘Name’). Please let me know if this time slot is available.”

3. Financial class

Financial solvency in correspondence is not manifested in the amounts you promise, but in how you discuss money.

• No fuss: Any attempts at bargaining, questions about discounts “for regulars” or “for the first time” instantly lower your rating. A gentleman sees the price and either accepts it or walks away.
• Staying ahead of the game: If you want to stand out from the crowd, bring up the subject of guarantees yourself. The phrase “Do I need to pay in advance to make a reservation?” works like magic. It shows that you value her time and are willing to back up your words financially. Even if prepayment is not required, the very fact that you asked will earn you points.

4. Testing for reliability (Verification and Refusal)

Be prepared to be asked to confirm your identity. Links to social networks or photos are normal practice in the age of digital transparency. Aggression in response to a request for verification is perceived as a sign of danger.

And most importantly, the ability to accept “No.” If the time is busy or the type is not suitable, a dignified exit from the dialogue (“Understood, thank you, have a nice day”) often leaves the door open for the future. Hysteria or rudeness close it forever.

✅ Ready to send

Now that you understand the strategy, compose your message and check it against the points below. If everything is “Yes,” send it.

Respect

• ✔Respectful greeting — You greeted me, introduced yourself, and I address you formally.
• ✖A tactful and polite message — Your text does not contain the words “discount,” “expensive,” or “quickly.”
• ✔Respect for boundaries — You do not offer anything from the “Taboo” list. (see Stop-List)

Calmness and punctuality

• ✔Etiquette and tact — You write during reception hours (not at 4 a.m., unless “24 hours” is specified).
• ✔Logistics - location — Meeting place: clearly state the correct address with directions and instructions on where to press if there are codes, including details (floor, apartment, presence of additional people in the building). Any discrepancies may arouse suspicion and affect the service, up to and including refusal to provide it.
• ✔Logistics time — You specified a specific date, time, and duration.
• ✔The girl's safety and peace of mind — You are ready to undergo verification if necessary.

Financial etiquette

• ✔Price negotiation — You agree with the price and will not haggle when we meet.
• ✔Solvency — You have the required amount ready.
• ✔Prepayment — Initiating prepayment for a reservation is perceived as a sign of serious intent.

Ending communication

• ✔Maintaining dignity in case of rejection — If you are denied or the terms are not suitable for you, do not pressure or persuade them. And, above all, do not be rude or threatening. The correct response is: “I understand, thank you for the information. Have a nice day.” This will preserve your reputation and the possibility of contacting them in the future.